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Imi Lo

What Patriarchy Has Done to Love

There is always a “he.” It usually starts with a father, then a teacher, maybe a football coach, a boyfriend. But “he” is also our society…

3d ago

What Patriarchy Has Done to Love

3d ago

To Touch a Thousand Flowers and Pick None

“I will touch a hundred flowers and not pick one.” A line from Edna St. Vincent Millay that inspired me to write this. How profound. I…

Mar 2

To Touch a Thousand Flowers and Pick None

Mar 2

When I Stopped Holding My Breath

Lately, what I have learned is this: I cannot suspend my life until the “dark patch” is over to live it fully. I cannot keep waiting for…

Feb 28

When I Stopped Holding My Breath

Feb 28

Chihiro the Heretic: A Quiet Defiance

A Brief Note on My Favorite Film This Year

Feb 11

Chihiro the Heretic: A Quiet Defiance

Feb 11

Beyond the Gaslighter

They think they’re breaking your reality But they are actually sharpening your truth And your ability to stand by it.

Jan 25

Beyond the Gaslighter

Jan 25

BPD Limerence: Trapped Between Love and Fear

BPD limerence occurs when borderline personality traits intersect with obsessive romantic attachment — a confusing and often painful state…

Jan 4

BPD Limerence: Trapped Between Love and Fear

Jan 4

When Someone Tells You How To Live Your Life

That flash of anger when someone pushes their “shoulds” onto your life — is to be listened to and trusted.

Jan 1

When Someone Tells You How To Live Your Life

Jan 1

A Love Letter to the Differently Employed Ones

To those who say ‘this isn’t real work’:

Nov 6, 2024

A Love Letter to the Differently Employed Ones

Nov 6, 2024

Why This Again?

Why does this keep happening? Some days, life feels like a relentless barrage of challenges. One problem follows another, leaving little…

Oct 31, 2024

Why This Again?

Oct 31, 2024

The Slam — Coping with a Defensive Parent

You express a small concern, a mild disappointment, a gentle request. And the moment you do, they shut down. Fiercely, violently, abruptly…

Oct 27, 2024

The Slam — Coping with a Defensive Parent

Oct 27, 2024

Imi Lo

Imi Lo

Imi works with intense, existentially aware and gifted people. Eggshell Therapy: eggshelltherapy.com. Pecan Philosophy: pecanphilosophy.com

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