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Imi Lo

BPD Limerence: Trapped Between Love and Fear

BPD limerence occurs when borderline personality traits intersect with obsessive romantic attachment — a confusing and often painful state…

Jan 4

BPD Limerence: Trapped Between Love and Fear

Jan 4

When Someone Tells You How To Live Your Life

That flash of anger when someone pushes their “shoulds” onto your life — is to be listened to and trusted.

Jan 1

When Someone Tells You How To Live Your Life

Jan 1

A Love Letter to the Differently Employed Ones

To those who say ‘this isn’t real work’:

Nov 6, 2024

A Love Letter to the Differently Employed Ones

Nov 6, 2024

Why This Again?

Why does this keep happening? Some days, life feels like a relentless barrage of challenges. One problem follows another, leaving little…

Oct 31, 2024

Why This Again?

Oct 31, 2024

The Slam — Coping with a Defensive Parent

You express a small concern, a mild disappointment, a gentle request. And the moment you do, they shut down. Fiercely, violently, abruptly…

Oct 27, 2024

The Slam — Coping with a Defensive Parent

Oct 27, 2024

When Someone Tries to Love You, Let Them

You’ve spent years building fortresses around your heart because you learned early that being seen was dangerous.

Oct 24, 2024

When Someone Tries to Love You, Let Them

Oct 24, 2024

Invisible Loss, The Deadliest, Loneliest Scream

The world continues, oblivious.

Oct 10, 2024

Invisible Loss, The Deadliest, Loneliest Scream

Oct 10, 2024

The yearning to not yearn

I no longer pray for what I want, or what I’ve lost.

Oct 4, 2024

The yearning to not yearn

Oct 4, 2024

The Breath of Grief

A sudden, enormous loss can dig a black hole deep in your heart.

Sep 29, 2024

The Breath of Grief

Sep 29, 2024

Why we a

We hurl the question “why” when we do not like what is happening.

Sep 25, 2024

Why we a

Sep 25, 2024

Imi Lo

Imi Lo

Imi works with intense, existentially aware and gifted people. Eggshell Therapy: eggshelltherapy.com. Pecan Philosophy: pecanphilosophy.com

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