Gifted and Stoic: 7 Stoicism Strategies for the Gifted Adults

Imi Lo
10 min readJan 1, 2024

For those with heightened emotional intensity and giftedness, perceiving the world through heightened emotions and empathic insight is a significant strength. However, it also comes with challenges like emotional overwhelm, negative self-perceptions, decision-making difficulties, and vulnerability to overstimulation.

As a gifted adult, Stoicism can potentially provide a tailored framework for your unique qualities. It helps you navigate life’s uncertainties with grace and find a sense of purpose. By combining Stoic philosophy with personalized coaching, you can build inner resilience, balance your emotions, and adopt a mindset in line with timeless Stoic wisdom.

7 Stoic Wisdoms for the Gifted Adults

Let’s see how specific Stoic principles can be a guiding light in your life:

Dichotomy of Control

In Stoic coaching, a crucial concept is the “Dichotomy of Control.” This idea encourages you to distinguish between things you can control and those you can’t. Mastering this helps you regulate emotions, stay calm, and find stability even when things seem chaotic.

Gifted and emotionally intense individuals often struggle with strong emotions and high expectations. Even though they know they can’t control everything, a lifetime of conditioning makes them try to manage things beyond their influence.

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Imi Lo

Imi works with intense, existentially aware and gifted people. Eggshell Therapy: eggshelltherapy.com. Pecan Philosophy: pecanphilosophy.com